2)Myth: I can stop my body from adding fat cells by eating less. Fact: Around puberty, girls will find that their bodies develop fat around their hips, thighs and buttocks. This is supposed to happen, even though there is much pressure in our culture to stay thin. When you try to stop this process by restricting your food intake, especially during adolescence, your body is programmed to think that you will not be prepared for child-bearing years. As a result, you will have a physiological response in which you will produce more fat cells and larger fat cells that will be with you for life. Positive Step: Accept the fact that your body will naturally change throughout the life cycle. Celebrate the health and capacities of your body rather than trying to attain cultural ideals which are unrealistic.
3) Myth: I should only eat healthy foods. Fact: Although it is important to include healthy foods in your diet, we all like a variety of foods and we live in a society where food is abundant. When you tell yourself you can’t have a certain food, such as a cookie, you feel a sense of deprivation. Eventually, you will rebel against the deprivation and eat more cookies than your body needs. While you may feel out of control, this is a normal reaction to restricting foods. Positive Step: Keep all foods “legal.” When you eat a wide variety of foods in response to physiological hunger, your diet will be nutritionally balanced. Everyone likes to eat all types of foods, and allowing yourself to do so will help you avoid the trap of the diet/binge cycle.
4) Myth: The more I exercise, the better off I’ll be. Fact: Exercise is an excellent way to keep your body healthy and strong. However, exercise can become a compulsive activity causing physical and emotional problems. If you must exercise every day in order to feel O.K., exercise for hours at a time, or if exercise gets in the way of other activities, you have probably become a compulsive exerciser. Positive Step: Focus on exercise as a way to stay fit rather than as a way to lose weight. If you choose to develop a regular exercise schedule, make sure that it enhances your lifestyle rather than becoming an obsession.
5) Myth: People who are thinner are healthier Fact: People who are fit are healthier. In fact, a recent study found that it is healthier to be larger and fit than to be thin and unfit. Positive Step: Consider a reasonable plan for movement or exercise at your current size that feels comfortable to you. There are now many programs that offer classes for larger people in a safe, accepting environment with an emphasis on fitness rather than weight loss.
6) Myth: I can’t be happy unless I’m thin. Fact: There are happy and unhappy people at all sizes. Research shows that the key to having a high self-esteem is for you and your family to value who you are and respect your body, no matter what your size. Positive Step: Some important things you can do for yourself, no matter what shape or body size you have, are to stay fit, eat according to your physical hunger, and develop a loving attitude toward your body. If you overeat because of emotional reasons, or generally feel unhappy, consider getting help from a therapist so that you can deal directly with the issues in your life that makes you unhappy.
7) Myth: Losing weight is a matter of willpower. Fact: A Consumer Report study found that the promises of commercial weight loss programs are false. The Federal Trade Commission now requires programs to qualify their results. This indicates that individual dieters are not at fault for failures. Rather, regaining weight after initial losses is the norm. Positive Step: Stop beating yourself up for the difficulties you encounter in maintaining a weight loss. Rather than feeling shame, try to become compassionate with yourself. It is tough to live in a society that tells you that you are not O.K. just the way you are. Instead of trying to change the shape of your body, consider trying to change the messages which you’ve internalized.
8) Myth: People who are fat eat more than people who are thin. Fact: Studies do not find this to necessarily be the case. Large people often eat the same amount of food as people considered to be average size. Positive Step: Remember that your genetics plays the greatest role in determining your size, followed by changes in your physiology due to yo-yo dieting. If you find yourself bingeing, it is likely that you are responding to deprivation as the result of dieting. This behavior will diminish as you normalize your relationship with food.
9) Myth: If I understand the emotional causes of my overeating, it will stop. Fact: Understanding the reasons you overeat will not change your relationship with food. While you may solve some of the other difficulties in your life, compulsive eating behaviors require direct intervention. Positive Step: Read books, attend workshops or seek the help of a professional who can help you deal directly with your overeating by teaching you how to stop dieting and become attuned to your natural hunger. Once you take this step, you will be in a much stronger position to intervene with the emotional triggers of your overeating.
10) Myth: Compulsive eating is an addiction which must be controlled. Fact: Compulsive eating can take the form of an addiction for many people who use food to regulate their emotions. However, compulsive eating can be cured. Positive Step: Unlike other addictions including cigarettes, alcohol and drugs, you cannot live without food. Therefore, rather than trying to control overeating by giving up certain types of food, the key is for you to relearn how to put food back where it belongs. When you can do this, you will outgrow the need to eat compulsively. bibliography Matz, J. and Frankel E. (2004) Beyond a Shadow of a Diet: The Therapist’s Guide to Treating Compulsive Eating, New York: Burnner-Routledge
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